Dating a taken man
These are generalizations, of course, but they are attitudes that I've personally encountered.
Skepticism towards black men/white women relationships is a longstanding and well-documented part of our cultural fabric in America. I'm not a "black man" who "dates white women." I'm a person.
I used to think it was the universe having a good laugh.
Now, though, I've come to realize that it has nothing to do with the universe. There is nothing more attractive to a female than a good-looking man in a committed relationship.
The white men who can get past the mental anguish of my black penis tarnishing "their" women think I'm making some latent admission that their race has the most attractive women.
White women range from those so intrigued by black men that it veers into fetish to those so reluctant to date black men that it feels more racist than preference-driven.
The following letter is pretty representative of how this happens, and how it affects the people involved. He has a girlfriend, I’ve known that from the start.
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